tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21067611.post115936687620150655..comments2023-10-18T05:59:33.660-03:00Comments on My family of 5: Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21067611.post-1159980591581644052006-10-04T13:49:00.000-03:002006-10-04T13:49:00.000-03:00I am catching up on my blog reading and just had t...I am catching up on my blog reading and just had to comment. I totally understand your post. <BR/><BR/>I am not going to my inlaws this year either. There is too much family drama going on over there lately and everytime I leave they make up some story that I said such and such while I was there and it is completely not true. It is so far from true that you can't even say they derived it from something I did say. It is just a lie made up to perpetuate drama in the family, so I am NOT going this year. And I dare him to try and make me :)Mandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11490035879329635634noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21067611.post-1159462850119479572006-09-28T14:00:00.000-03:002006-09-28T14:00:00.000-03:00well if you didnt live so far away you could come ...well if you didnt live so far away you could come down here... your Tday is in October right... anyways... go to your family's tday and screw them... I think you need some space from your in-laws and their family... hey... go TP her house... hehehe...Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07397241521703203082noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21067611.post-1159426015291948682006-09-28T03:46:00.000-03:002006-09-28T03:46:00.000-03:00sorry you are having to deal with this Emma.. *hug...sorry you are having to deal with this Emma.. *hugs* I don't know if I agree with the others because I don't think I would go.. but I don't see why hubby won't take the kids and go... just do what is best for you and stick to your guns!Tonyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02281227691142336314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21067611.post-1159393945589683012006-09-27T18:52:00.000-03:002006-09-27T18:52:00.000-03:00I agree with silly hily, tooI agree with silly hily, tooAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21067611.post-1159390094280249272006-09-27T17:48:00.000-03:002006-09-27T17:48:00.000-03:00I have to argee. Go and be with your family. Talk...I have to argee. Go and be with your family. Talking to everyone but her will show you just dont care. I hope things get better.Heather Noelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01590963720268564821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21067611.post-1159377284141397792006-09-27T14:14:00.000-03:002006-09-27T14:14:00.000-03:00I agree with Hily. Don't let SIL win. Just go an...I agree with Hily. Don't let SIL win. Just go and ignore her and do your best to enjoy yourself. Hang out with your kids and do whatever they want. Pretend she isn't even there.Davidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12115936255078427093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21067611.post-1159371352407471172006-09-27T12:35:00.000-03:002006-09-27T12:35:00.000-03:00Eeek, I'm sorry. It sounds like he probably said ...Eeek, I'm sorry. It sounds like he probably said the whole "you are going" thing at a spur of the angry moment type. <BR/>Honestly, it would probably make your SIL feel SO good if you didn't go b/c that way she feels like she has won and pushed you out of their life and also caused a riff between you and the hubby. I have issues with someone but I'll be damned if that person is going to cause me to fight with my husband. They aren't worth it. She isn't worth it. I know she makes you sick to your stomach (trust me) BUT she is part of his family and therefore, will be a part of your life forever. I would just go and avoid her like the plague. Ignore her. Give all of you attention to your kids and maybe you can act like she isn't even there.<BR/>Keep us updated on what happens with this. <BR/>(And I hope I didn't sound too assvicey b/c I didn't mean to be. Just trying to tell you how I deal with it. Big hugs.)Silly Hilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11381085189763136258noreply@blogger.com