Feeling rather blah today.

Hubby and I had a wonderful fight yesterday. It's all about the SIL.

It started out that we were driving home and she had her car parked at the end of the road to pick her kids up off the bus. I'm like don't bother stopping to talk, I'm not interested. That's fine. We drive by and hubby says, she didn't even look up our way at all. Fine. Whatever. I totally don't want to waste my effort to speak to her. So then we get home. I tell him how I'm not going to his parents house for Thanksgiving this year and he gets kind of pissy and says, You ARE going. You have no choice. Then it starts. I'm like HELLO! you are not my parent, you cannot force me to do anything, get over it, I'm not going. You take the kids and go. I explained how it'll totally be uncomfortable having to sit there when SIL and her hubby won't even look our way. Come on. I'm just sparing everyone here and letting them have their time, his family would rather her there, so be it. I'm fine with that. BUT my point is that I don't want to be FORCED to speak to people I don't want to talk with.

Hubby starts saying, you can't avoid her forever, blah blah, and I'm like no, but when it comes to funerals and weddings and whatnot, i'll attend, but little gatherings like that, i could care less. I'm not stopping him from taking the kids and going. Blah. It's all foolishness. I don't even want to waste my effort thinking about any of them. I'm just super not impressed about hubby's whole comment about "YOU ARE GOING". Please, I'm not his slave. He was dead serious too that he was going to force me there. Then says, well none of us are going. And says, Thanks for ruining it for us this year. BLAH!